Why dating is wrong
In fact a number of women have said to me that they’re afraid of wasting time, while at the same time feeling that time is running out, so they’re trying to effectively compact, for example, what would be a years worth of dating for another person, into a couple of months. It may feel like you’re auditioning them for what you feel is the big job of being ‘The One’ but you and they are people with feelings, libidos, imaginations, and love habits that may be counterproductive to you actually getting the relationship you want – adding several people to the mix just makes it messy.
If a man avoids one thing in a woman, he will increase his chances of long-term happiness a thousand fold: It used to be that the word narcissist wasn’t thrown around lightly.
Who said you have to go straight to a relationship? A couple of weeks ago I wrote about why dating is a discovery phase for fact finding.
I don’t want to get into a relationship too quickly?
Their interest in a woman is immediate upon seeing her, and she may wield considerable power over him based on her sexual attractiveness.
Women are generally willing to enter relationships, but men worry about finding out down the road that a woman was not who he thought.